Know Their Heart Before You Know Their Name.
A privacy-first matchmaking community for Jewish singles seeking meaningful relationships and marriage. Discover compatibility through values, character, personality, and shared goals while remaining in control of your identity and privacy.
A More Thoughtful Way to Meet
Start with compatibility, build trust privately, and reveal personal details only when both people are ready.
Tell Us About Yourself
Create your private profile and describe your values, qualities, lifestyle, and relationship goals.
Discover Potential Matches
Explore compatible Heart Profiles while sensitive personal information remains protected.
Connect Privately
When matching rules permit, begin getting to know one another through private communication.
Reveal When Ready
Approved personal information is shared through Mutual Reveal according to the platform privacy rules.
Meet the Person Before the Picture
My Heart Profile™ is a shareable anonymous introduction designed to shift attention toward values, personality, goals, character, lifestyle, and compatibility before identity becomes the focus. You can optionally share it with family, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, or community to expand your matchmaking circle without exposing protected personal information.
Values. Character. Lifestyle. Goals. Compatibility.
Privacy Is Part of the Matchmaking Process
Privacy is not a decorative feature. It is part of how members move from discovery to trust.
🔒 Private by Default
Sensitive information stays protected according to the platform disclosure model.
💬 Anonymous Communication
Eligible members can communicate without immediately exposing personal identity.
♡ Mutual Reveal
Personal details are disclosed only through the approved Mutual Reveal workflow.
✓ Identity & Age Verification
Verification strengthens trust while identity documents remain with the verification provider.
Three Ways to Participate
Join as a single, participate in the Community, or help others as a Community Ambassador.
♡ Private Matchmaking
For Jewish singles seriously seeking a meaningful relationship and marriage.
Then $59.95 every 6 months
◉ Anonymous Soulmates Exclusive WhatsApp Community
For singles, parents, friends, relatives, rabbis, matchmakers, and caring community members. WhatsApp participation is not anonymous by default.
Then $11.88/year, equivalent to only 99¢ per month
♡ Community Ambassador
Help grow the community, refer singles, and create more opportunities for introductions.
Matchmaking Works Better When a Community Cares
Parents, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, and community members all have a role to play in helping singles find each other.
We can encourage. We can introduce. We can open doors. But the next step belongs to the single.
Anonymous Soulmates never shames singles. The community exists to encourage and support, not to pressure.
Help Create More Opportunities for Jewish Singles
Community Ambassadors can share a personal referral link, help grow participation, participate in Share & Earn where approved, and measure the impact they create in the community.
Built With Privacy and Trust in Mind
The platform combines privacy controls, verification, and deliberate disclosure rather than placing every detail on a public profile.
Why Anonymous Soulmates
A different starting point for Jewish matchmaking, built around character and community.
♡ Heart Before Appearance
Compatibility starts with values, character, and goals rather than photos.
🔒 Private Before Public
Personal details stay protected until both people choose to share them.
⚖ Mutual Compatibility
Match evaluation respects the preferences of both people, not just one side.
♡ Mutual Reveal
Approved personal information is shared only when both people agree.
✦ Marriage Focused
The community is built for people seeking meaningful relationships and marriage.
◉ Community Supported
Parents, friends, rabbis, and matchmakers can help open doors.
✓ Identity & Age Verification
Verification is included with Private Matchmaking at no separate charge.
♡ Free Through 2026
Private Matchmaking and the Community are free through December 31, 2026.
Thoughtful Guidance for the Journey
Useful guidance for singles and the people who care about helping them.
How Jewish Matchmaking Works
A practical introduction to serious Jewish matchmaking, compatibility, privacy, and taking the next step.
Read the Guide →Jewish Dating Safety & Privacy
Practical ways to protect personal information while building trust in a serious relationship.
Explore Safety →Helping Someone Find a Match
Guidance for parents, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, and Ambassadors who want to help respectfully.
Community Guidance →Frequently Asked Questions
Clear answers about how Anonymous Soulmates works.
What is Anonymous Soulmates?
Anonymous Soulmates is a privacy-first Jewish matchmaking and community platform for singles seeking meaningful relationships and marriage. Members get to know character, values, and compatibility before personal identity becomes the focus.
Who can join?
Jewish singles seeking a meaningful relationship or marriage can join Private Matchmaking. The Community also welcomes parents, friends, relatives, rabbis, matchmakers, and other caring community members who want to help.
How does Private Matchmaking work?
You create a private profile describing your values, qualities, lifestyle, and relationship goals. The platform highlights potential matches based on compatibility and your preferences. When matching rules permit, you can connect privately and reveal personal details only when both people are ready.
What is My Heart Profile™?
My Heart Profile™ is a shareable anonymous introduction emphasizing values, character, lifestyle, personality, goals, and compatibility while keeping sensitive personal information protected until an approved Mutual Reveal. Sharing is optional, and members may share it with family, friends, rabbis, matchmakers, WhatsApp groups, or social media to expand their matchmaking circle.
What information remains private?
Details such as your legal name, contact information, date of birth, address, photos, and family information stay protected. Approved personal details are shared only through Mutual Reveal according to the platform privacy rules.
What is Mutual Reveal?
Mutual Reveal is the controlled process through which approved personal information can be shared. Both people must agree before personal details are disclosed, so each step happens at a pace both people choose.
Can members communicate before revealing identity?
Yes. When matching rules permit, eligible members can communicate privately without immediately exposing personal identity.
Is Identity & Age Verification required?
Identity & Age Verification are required for Private Matchmaking and are included at no separate verification charge.
Does Anonymous Soulmates store government ID?
No. Identity and age verification are handled by a verification provider, and identity documents remain with that provider. Anonymous Soulmates does not store government ID documents in its database.
What does Private Matchmaking cost?
Private Matchmaking is free through December 31, 2026. Beginning January 1, 2027, Private Matchmaking is $59.95 every six months. Identity & Age Verification and standard Anonymous Soulmates Exclusive WhatsApp Community Membership are included at no additional charge.
What is free through December 31, 2026?
Private Matchmaking and the Anonymous Soulmates Exclusive WhatsApp Community are both free through December 31, 2026. Community Ambassador registration is always free.
Does Private Matchmaking require WhatsApp?
No. Private Matchmaking does not require WhatsApp participation. The two programs are separate.
Is WhatsApp anonymous?
No. WhatsApp participation is not anonymous by default. Depending on WhatsApp features and settings, other participants may be able to see information such as your name, phone number, profile photo, or username. Members should understand this before joining the Community.
Who can become a Community Ambassador?
Parents, friends, relatives, rabbis, matchmakers, community leaders, professionals, and other caring community members can register as Community Ambassadors.
Does Ambassador registration cost anything?
No. Community Ambassador registration is free, and no payment is required simply to become an Ambassador.
Can parents participate?
Yes. Parents can join the Community and can register as Community Ambassadors to help create more opportunities for Jewish singles.
Can rabbis and matchmakers participate?
Yes. Rabbis and matchmakers are welcome in the Community and as Community Ambassadors. The community works best when caring people help open doors.
Your Next Introduction Could Begin Here
Whether you are searching for your soulmate or helping someone you care about, Anonymous Soulmates gives you a thoughtful way to take the next step.