How Anonymous Soulmates Works

The Complete Private Matchmaking Journey

Seven thoughtful steps, designed to protect privacy while helping genuine compatibility come first.

01

Tell Us About Yourself

Create a private matchmaking profile covering values, personality, background, interests, relationship goals, and what you hope to find.

02

Create Your My Heart Profile™

Optional. Create a shareable privacy-first introduction that can be shared outside the platform without automatically exposing protected identity information.

03

Your Application Is Reviewed

Applications are reviewed before activation to help maintain a serious, respectful, authentic, marriage-focused environment.

04

Discover Potential Matches

Explore approved potential matches based on values, personality, interests, background, relationship goals, and compatibility. Sensitive personal information stays protected the entire time.

05

Get to Know the Person Privately

Communicate through the Anonymous Soulmates private system without immediately giving out personal contact information.

06

Reveal More Only When You Are Both Ready

Personal information is revealed only through the approved Mutual Reveal process, when both people consent.

07

Take the Relationship Beyond Anonymous Soulmates

When both people are comfortable, they may move forward toward meeting, developing the relationship, and hopefully building a meaningful Jewish future together.

What Happens After You Apply

From application to first introduction, here is what you can expect.

1. Complete the Application

One unified application lets you choose Private Matchmaking, the Community, the Ambassador program, or any combination of the three.

2. Identity & Age Verification

Private Matchmaking includes Identity & Age Verification. Identity documents remain with the verification provider and are not stored in the Anonymous Soulmates database.

3. Set Your Preferences

Define what you are looking for. Match evaluation respects the preferences of both people, so a match only counts when it works in both directions.

4. Receive New Potential Match Alerts

When an eligible new member joins and compatibility looks promising, you receive a New Potential Match Alert so you can review the Heart Profile at your own pace. The platform helps identify possibilities. It does not guarantee a match.

5. Communicate and Grow Trust

Eligible matches can message privately inside the platform, with blocking and reporting tools available at all times.

6. Choose Mutual Reveal

When both people feel ready, approved personal details can be shared. Either person can decline, and nothing is revealed without agreement from both sides.

Privacy Rules That Protect Everyone

Privacy on Anonymous Soulmates is a process, not a promise on a page.

🔒 Sensitive Fields Stay Protected

Your legal name, contact details, date of birth, address, photos, and family information are never shown on a Heart Profile. Only approved fields can ever be revealed, and only through Mutual Reveal.

💬 Communication With Boundaries

Messaging works only between matched members with active status. Members can block another member at any time, and blocking is enforced on both sides.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does Private Matchmaking require WhatsApp?

No. Private Matchmaking does not require WhatsApp participation. The two programs are separate.

What does it cost?

Private Matchmaking is free through December 31, 2026. Beginning January 1, 2027, it is $59.95 every six months, with Identity & Age Verification included and standard Anonymous Soulmates Exclusive WhatsApp Community Membership included at no additional charge. No separate standard $11.88 annual Exclusive WhatsApp Community Membership charge applies while the member has qualifying Private Matchmaking membership.

Who can help me on this journey?

Parents, friends, rabbis, and matchmakers can join the Community and support you respectfully. The next step is always yours.

Your Next Introduction Could Begin Here

Whether you are searching for your soulmate or helping someone you care about, Anonymous Soulmates gives you a thoughtful way to take the next step.