What Private Matchmaking Includes
A complete, privacy-first matchmaking experience.
♡ My Heart Profile™
A shareable, privacy-first introduction built around values, character, lifestyle, personality, goals, and compatibility rather than photos and surface details. Sharing is optional and never automatically exposes protected identity information.
⚖ Mutual Compatibility
Match evaluation respects the preferences of both people. Hard filters and duplicate prevention keep your Potential Matches relevant.
🔔 New Potential Match Alerts
Members identify Required and Preferred qualities in a potential match. When an eligible new member joins, the platform evaluates compatibility and can send a New Potential Match Alert so you can review the Heart Profile at your own pace. The platform helps identify possibilities. It does not guarantee a match.
💬 Private Messaging
Matched members with active status can communicate privately inside the platform, with blocking and reporting always available.
♡ Mutual Reveal
Approved personal details are shared only when both people agree. Requests can be declined at any time by either person.
✓ Identity & Age Verification
Verification is required and included. Identity documents remain with the verification provider and are never stored in the Anonymous Soulmates database.
The Complete Private Matchmaking Journey
From first words to first meeting, privacy comes first at every step.
Tell Us About Yourself
Create a private matchmaking profile covering values, personality, background, interests, relationship goals, and what you hope to find.
Create Your My Heart Profile™
Optional. A shareable privacy-first introduction that can travel to family, friends, rabbis, and matchmakers without automatically exposing protected identity information.
Your Application Is Reviewed
Applications are reviewed before activation to help maintain a serious, respectful, authentic, marriage-focused environment.
Discover Potential Matches
Explore approved potential matches based on values, personality, interests, background, relationship goals, and compatibility.
Get to Know the Person Privately
Communicate through the Anonymous Soulmates private system without immediately giving out personal contact information.
Reveal More Only When You Are Both Ready
Personal information is revealed only through the approved Mutual Reveal process, when both people consent.
Take the Relationship Beyond Anonymous Soulmates
When both people are comfortable, they may move forward toward meeting, developing the relationship, and hopefully building a meaningful Jewish future together.